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Re: A struggling bochur 05 Aug 2018 20:07 #334324

Shnitzel and kugel
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Bh 56 days!!
Good week to all

Joined as a single bochur, Bh broke free (but still on watch) by using the tools on this website, therapy but mainly through getting married.

הנותן עיניו במה שאינו שלו, מה שמבקש לא נותנים לו, ומה שבידו נוטלים ממנה

(סוטה ט, עמוד א)

ולכן אל יפול לב אדם
וכו' גם אם יהיה כן כל ימיו במלחמה זו כי אולי לכך נברא וזאת עבודתו לאכפיא לס"א תמיד
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Re: A struggling bochur 06 Aug 2018 20:46 #334381

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Sounds crazy, but sometimes I would go through the forums just because I had a big lust, and that was my only way to let it out.
i know there was once a thread about this a few years ago, I realized I had this problem recently but apparently im not the only one.

Apparently i didn't give my lust up completely and the יצה"ר is very smart, so iyh I'll stop looking at other people's forums, for me it could do more damage than fixing my problem...

Also some articles from the daily emails sometimes gets me triggered, cuz anything small turns me on.. but bh nevertheless bh it didn't cause my to watch pornography or mastrubate, 57 days clean bh!

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Re: A struggling bochur 09 Aug 2018 03:44 #334458

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Bh I've reached 60 days clean today!! Only with hashems help was it possible! That's two full months clean!! 2/3 there, still have to fight, yesterday I nearly fell... But thanks also for everyone's encouragement and support!

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Re: A struggling bochur 10 Aug 2018 17:05 #334552

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61 days, Shabbat shalom to all!

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Re: A struggling bochur 17 Aug 2018 05:48 #334752

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68 days clean bh!
shabbat shalom to all

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Re: A struggling bochur 19 Aug 2018 02:54 #334784

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Gut voch to all!
bh reached 70 days clean today! First try ka"h

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Re: A struggling bochur 24 Aug 2018 02:52 #334951

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75 days clean bh!
shabbat shalom to all!

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Re: A struggling bochur 24 Aug 2018 04:38 #334956

Realestatemogul Current streak: 33 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 345 Karma: 26	What a way to go into shabbos! I am rooting for you #90
	Check out my thread guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/334915-This-is-going-to-be-the-time-I-get-to-90%21

Re: A struggling bochur 29 Aug 2018 05:51 #335109

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80 days bh!

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Re: A struggling bochur 29 Aug 2018 07:11 #335115

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Shnitzel and kugel wrote on 29 Aug 2018 05:51:

80 days bh!

Some more side dishes please.

My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads:
GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous)

If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."

Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others.

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Re: A struggling bochur 29 Aug 2018 17:33 #335140

Hashem Help Me Current streak: 1501 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 2513	Shnitzel and kugel wrote on 29 Aug 2018 05:51: 80 days bh! Ben shmonim l'gvura - Eizehu gibbor, hakovesh es yitzro.
	Feel free to contact me at michelgelner@gmail.com My threads: Lessons Learned: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/335248-Lessons-Learned My Story and G-d Bless GYE: guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/303036-My-story-and-G-d-bless-GYE

Re: A struggling bochur 02 Sep 2018 02:45 #335211

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What better time to start saying selichois then when I'm holding at day 84 on first try bh!

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Re: A struggling bochur 02 Sep 2018 03:53 #335212

Realestatemogul Current streak: 33 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 345 Karma: 26	Good for you! Have me in mind for slicha, I am only on day 20.
	Check out my thread guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/334915-This-is-going-to-be-the-time-I-get-to-90%21

Re: A struggling bochur 02 Sep 2018 06:01 #335213

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, I am only on day 20.

only at day 20? I'd say already at day 20!

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Re: A struggling bochur 02 Sep 2018 06:27 #335214

Realestatemogul Current streak: 33 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 345 Karma: 26	True that! But I wont have a full 90 like you will this yomim noraim! Good for you! it must feel good knowing you have conquered this so well.
	Check out my thread guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/334915-This-is-going-to-be-the-time-I-get-to-90%21