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TOPIC: A struggling bochur 75938 Views
Re: A struggling bochur 28 Jun 2018 18:35 #332782
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Re: A struggling bochur 28 Jun 2018 19:38 #332785
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My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads: GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous) If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful." "Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'. "The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same." Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others. MY POSTS ARE NOT WRITTEN AS A MODERATOR UNLESS EXPLICITLY STATED. |
Re: A struggling bochur 29 Jun 2018 03:38 #332796
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Joined as a single bochur, Bh broke free (but still on watch) by using the tools on this website, therapy but mainly through getting married.
הנותן עיניו במה שאינו שלו, מה שמבקש לא נותנים לו, ומה שבידו נוטלים ממנה (סוטה ט, עמוד א) ולכן אל יפול לב אדם וכו' גם אם יהיה כן כל ימיו במלחמה זו כי אולי לכך נברא וזאת עבודתו לאכפיא לס"א תמיד (תניא פ"כז) |
Re: A struggling bochur 29 Jun 2018 05:05 #332799
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Re: A struggling bochur 29 Jun 2018 07:14 #332800
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This works for me: https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/336801-the-poof-method
I moved to a blog: https://wordpress.com/post/mzl0.home.blog/11 |
Re: A struggling bochur 01 Jul 2018 07:00 #332834
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Joined as a single bochur, Bh broke free (but still on watch) by using the tools on this website, therapy but mainly through getting married.
הנותן עיניו במה שאינו שלו, מה שמבקש לא נותנים לו, ומה שבידו נוטלים ממנה (סוטה ט, עמוד א) ולכן אל יפול לב אדם וכו' גם אם יהיה כן כל ימיו במלחמה זו כי אולי לכך נברא וזאת עבודתו לאכפיא לס"א תמיד (תניא פ"כז) |
Re: A struggling bochur 02 Jul 2018 16:54 #332909
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Re: A struggling bochur 02 Jul 2018 17:36 #332910
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Re: A struggling bochur 02 Jul 2018 18:14 #332911
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וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah I'll help you see it through... "If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE." "Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome." - General Grant My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends |
Re: A struggling bochur 02 Jul 2018 19:01 #332915
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Feel free to contact me at michelgelner@gmail.com
My threads: Lessons Learned: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/335248-Lessons-Learned My Story and G-d Bless GYE: guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/303036-My-story-and-G-d-bless-GYE |
Re: A struggling bochur 05 Jul 2018 05:26 #333001
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Re: A struggling bochur 05 Jul 2018 07:14 #333003
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השלך על השם יהבך והוא יכלכלך |
Re: A struggling bochur 05 Jul 2018 20:25 #333013
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Re: A struggling bochur 06 Jul 2018 16:31 #333040
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Joined as a single bochur, Bh broke free (but still on watch) by using the tools on this website, therapy but mainly through getting married.
הנותן עיניו במה שאינו שלו, מה שמבקש לא נותנים לו, ומה שבידו נוטלים ממנה (סוטה ט, עמוד א) ולכן אל יפול לב אדם וכו' גם אם יהיה כן כל ימיו במלחמה זו כי אולי לכך נברא וזאת עבודתו לאכפיא לס"א תמיד (תניא פ"כז) |
Re: A struggling bochur 06 Jul 2018 17:07 #333045
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Important quote from Cordnoy "The need is a perceived one. There has not been one reported case on these pages of a death occurrin' on account of not fulfillin' that need” “I avoid looking forward or backward, and try to keep looking upward.” "My recovery must come first so that everything I love in life doesn’t have to come last." Feel free to reach out yd@guardyoureyes.org 732-646-5774 My Story |