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Re: Mesayin's Motivative Messages 25 Aug 2017 14:27 #319315

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You planning to retire below sea-level = depressed, or you wanna do something about it?If I do that then I going to have to KOS = Keep on Submarining.




I don't how much this forum will get me out of depression, I really like helping people so it does give me some liveliness but I also have other plans, it started with dumping the devices that kept me in depression. I will need to improve my character and connect with people/God.


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Re: Mesayin's Motivative Messages 25 Aug 2017 14:45 #319319

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I will, except I'm on my working PC and I gotta make sure I do my work and not spend too much time here.

​I indeed need an accountability partner. Ein apitrupis l'arayis.

​And I'm not familiar with the smurfs. 

And your previous image didn't seem to come up right.
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Re: Mesayin's Motivative Messages 01 Sep 2017 16:33 #319621

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I had an interesting thought (well, interesting to me at least).

In the olden days we needed mussar sfarim and sifrei chassidus to tell us why ta'avos is bad and it is not good for us.

However, today's days we need no explanation, it is pretty clear to everyone, especially people on this site, that it is destructive and devastating to go after ta'avos. What we need is chizzuk and ideas on how to avoid it and fight it.
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Re: Mesayin's Motivative Messages 03 Sep 2017 16:19 #319656

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Mesayin wrote on 01 Sep 2017 16:33:
I had an interesting thought (well, interesting to me at least).

In the olden days we needed mussar sfarim and sifrei chassidus to tell us why ta'avos is bad and it is not good for us.

However, today's days we need no explanation, it is pretty clear to everyone, especially people on this site, that it is destructive and devastating to go after ta'avos. What we need is chizzuk and ideas on how to avoid it and fight it.

tis inerestin, but I wonder if it's really so clear to us............
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Re: Mesayin's Motivative Messages 04 Sep 2017 18:32 #319732

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Had two falls yesterday after 6 days clean. I feel like I am progressing though.

I got a number of someone who can help me with this issue and be an accountability partner, I'm just to embarrassed to talk to people about this and I keep on pushing off calling him.
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Re: Mesayin's Motivative Messages 04 Sep 2017 20:01 #319744

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The first phone call may be rough to initiate but after that you probably wont hesitate when you see how helpful a phone call is. Put aside your shame, pick up the phone and call.
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Re: Mesayin's Motivative Messages 04 Sep 2017 21:38 #319752

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Phone calls have helped me considerably from getting out of my head and into the light. Sometimes when i cant really think straight i call a friend and it helps me to clear my head into deciding what i should do. 

If you want to add more people to your list of people you arent calling  you can email me: dms1234ongye@gmail.com
I am happy to speak on the phone. Please email me at dms1234ongye@gmail.com

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Re: Mesayin's Motivative Messages 04 Sep 2017 21:39 #319753

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Thanks for all the responses but but when I think about calling someone I start to go like this: 
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Re: Mesayin's Motivative Messages 04 Sep 2017 21:49 #319754

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I hear. 

My sponsor told me to "ask God for the willingness to" Anything i dont want to do like God, please give me the willingness to call my partner" 

Also sometimes, you just have to pick up the phone and dial. Even if you dont want to. 
I am happy to speak on the phone. Please email me at dms1234ongye@gmail.com

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Re: Mesayin's Motivative Messages 05 Sep 2017 05:33 #319778

Or send me or anyone else your; # and we'll call you  
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Re: Mesayin's Motivative Messages 21 Oct 2017 17:20 #321374

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i hear how hard it is to make that phone call ive had similar instances
remember this might be the hishtadlus hashem wants from you
when you make that phone call you can be mechaven to do a mitzvah

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Mesayin wrote on 12 May 2017 17:17:

Proof that God can make a mistake: Chayav udum loimar bishvili nevrah haolam, he created the whole world for/because of me.
BIG MISTAKE.

see, that joke is deeper then you thought. It wasn't a mistake!
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Re: My story 21 Jun 2018 15:49 #332537

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stillgoing wrote on 15 Mar 2018 22:00:

Mesayin wrote on 12 May 2017 17:17:

Proof that God can make a mistake: Chayav udum loimar bishvili nevrah haolam, he created the whole world for/because of me.
BIG MISTAKE.


see, that joke is deeper then you thought. It wasn't a mistake!
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Re: Mesayin's Motivative Messages 24 Mar 2019 21:15 #339931

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Mesayin wrote on 24 Aug 2017 14:58:
Hi. I'm back.

I fell apart about a month ago into a deep depression and started let myself loose on the lust battle. I got myself a few provocative video games on my laptop, (which might have gone in the geder of porn) and I didn't even want to help myself to get out of it. I masterbated twice a day at least.

But Burich Hashem I took the courage and got rid of all of my devices this week and working towards cleanliness. Although I still haven't stopped masterbating I feel like on the path towards stopping.

My main problem is not the lust itself but the fact that I am not being connected in my life and acting out is the only way I find connection albeit a false connection. 

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