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Re: I'm an Aspie (neurotypicals are invited too) 11 Nov 2015 22:05 #268432

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Mazel Tov!!!! Kein Yirbu!!!

You've definitely made your MARK here!
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...

My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends

Re: I'm an Aspie (neurotypicals are invited too) 11 Nov 2015 23:07 #268439

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Congratulations Mark!
Much Hatzlacha!

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Don't slip it hurts
Lions & Tigers & Internet, Oh My!

--"ולא המדרש עיקר, אלא המעשה"
--"To promise not to do a thing is the surest way in the world to make a body want to go and do that very thing." Mark Twain
--"If, when you honestly want to, you find you cannot quit entirely, or if when drinking (or lusting), you have little control over the amount you take, you are probably alcoholic (or sexaholic)." AA Big Book P. 45. Parenthesis added.
--You hit rock bottom when you decide to stop digging.

Re: I'm an Aspie (neurotypicals are invited too) 12 Nov 2015 03:32 #268458

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Dear Mark,

A huge congratulations on 90, kein yirbeh vchein yosif.

You have been a great friend and a great support to me and many others.

Thanx again, and KOT!

Yesod

Re: I'm an Aspie (neurotypicals are invited too) 12 Nov 2015 03:52 #268462

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Great job!
Continued hatzlachah.
If I would not have been cryin' anyway, I would cry for joy for you.

Keep usin' dem kochos of yours for the sake of your brethren.
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GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous)

If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."


Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others.

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Re: I'm an Aspie (neurotypicals are invited too) 12 Nov 2015 04:10 #268463

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Have a corny day ... and if you do have other plans, change 'em!!
peloni_almoni@hotmail.com

None of us has it all together, but together, we have it all.

we always put our sobriety before our ego -
מוטב שאקרא שוטה כל ימי ואל אהיה רשע שעה אחת לפני המקום

לפעולות אדם בדבר שפתיך אני שמרתי אורחות פריץ. תמוך אשורי במעגלותיך בל נמוטו פעמי. תהלים יז
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- THE BEST THREAD ON THE FORUM; READ, POST, AND HAVE A GREAT TIME
 
Last Edit: 12 Nov 2015 04:13 by peloni almoni.

Re: Aspie - pls read my Nov 11 share at end of page 1 12 Nov 2015 19:08 #268492

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Mark have you been karming me?

I get these karmas and i have no clue from who and i suspect ive been marked.


am i going to be recieving a bill from you?

Re: Aspie - pls read my Nov 11 share at end of page 1 12 Nov 2015 21:48 #268503

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Mark!
I am so happy for you that your life has improved so much. Mazel Tov on hitting 90, and thank you for your entertaining and thought-provoking posts.

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Quotes that speak to me
What do we replace it with....Life (Cordnoy)
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Re: Aspie - pls read my Nov 11 share at end of page 1 15 Nov 2015 20:16 #268658

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On occasion of my 90th birth DAY mom got me a yummy tzummy - actually was GS's idea last nite. Although I didn't have time to send him a new diaper back.

I just wanted to note - especially as another Aspie asked me to note my journey - one 'tool' I left out

I have regular sessions with an Asperger therapist, primarily to help me communicate with 'objects', primarily 'objects' from Venus (my great wife).
I think this may have helped me too, to see 'objects' as people = social awareness etiquette and all the silly neurotypical stuff
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Re: Aspie - pls read my Nov 11 share at end of page 1 15 Nov 2015 20:24 #268660

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markz wrote:
On occasion of my 90th birth DAY mom got me a yummy tzummy - actually was GS's idea last nite. Although I didn't have time to send him a new diaper back.

I just wanted to note - especially as another Aspie asked me to note my journey - one 'tool' I left out

I have regular sessions with an Asperger therapist, primarily to help me communicate with 'objects', primarily 'objects' from Venus (my great wife).
I think this may have helped me too, to see 'objects' as people = social awareness etiquette and all the silly neurotypical stuff


seriously? mom got it for you? doesn't seem like something he would do.
Have a corny day ... and if you do have other plans, change 'em!!
peloni_almoni@hotmail.com

None of us has it all together, but together, we have it all.

we always put our sobriety before our ego -
מוטב שאקרא שוטה כל ימי ואל אהיה רשע שעה אחת לפני המקום

לפעולות אדם בדבר שפתיך אני שמרתי אורחות פריץ. תמוך אשורי במעגלותיך בל נמוטו פעמי. תהלים יז
__________________________________________________________
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- SOLUTIONS: WHERE DO I FIT IN TO GYE
- DOWNLOAD GYE HANDBOOK & READ AT LEAST TWICE
- OVERDOSE OF DOV: READING MATERIAL TO KEEP ME SANE
- THE BEST THREAD ON THE FORUM; READ, POST, AND HAVE A GREAT TIME
 

I'm an Aspie - Neurotypicals are invited too 25 Nov 2015 11:48 #269618

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goodchange613 wrote:
day 70!
had a slip the other day but otherwise doin great. really working on my marriage and it's like magic how just changing my attitude and how i just work on my actions and the effect it has had so far, i still have a ways to go but it's been a great start.

Here's are the details of what I've been doing:
1)First I just started with eye contact. Once I focused on it I realized how little eye contact I had been having with her before that. This made me feel a little more connected to her and helped me really focus on what she says.

2)Started sending thank you texts almost every day for something she did the day before.

3)I really worked on using "I Love you" much more often from texts or calls during the day and then progressing to saying it to her every time i leave the house...

I posted this great share of my friend GC613 here, because aspergers may play into this, but it might be relevant to neuro's too.

1) I didn't make much eye contact. This is a very common asperger trait... plays out with my wife...

2) "thank you texts" I need to work on more

3) "I really worked on using "I Love you" much more often from texts or calls during the day".
This is something I did NOT do, primarily during nidda times, excusing it as a religious thing not to be too sexual during that period - how crazy can us lusters get!!
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Re: My Story 25 Nov 2015 20:09 #269659

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oh wow, i think this is my first time being quoted!

Re: My Story 25 Nov 2015 20:12 #269661

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whats neuro's?

Re: My Story 25 Nov 2015 20:26 #269662

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goodchange613 wrote:
whats neuro's?
non aspies
What I call socialists (that require all human kind to abide by the rules and regulations of being social acceptable - see the link I put earlier)
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Re: My Story 25 Nov 2015 21:22 #269679

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markz wrote:
goodchange613 wrote:
whats neuro's?
non aspies
What I call socialists (that require all human kind to abide by the rules and regulations of being social acceptable - see the link I put earlier)


As opposed to Marxists (that require all human kind to abide by the rules and regulations of Mark)
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...

My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends

Re: My Story 25 Nov 2015 21:26 #269680

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Gevura Shebyesod wrote:
markz wrote:
goodchange613 wrote:
whats neuro's?
non aspies
What I call socialists (that require all human kind to abide by the rules and regulations of being social acceptable - see the link I put earlier)


As opposed to Marxists (that require all human kind to abide by the rules and regulations of Mark)

This is not a joke. Aspies are rigid thinkers - very rule and regulation guys - unless lust takes over, but they know better how to think out of the box too, and shoot down communism...
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