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TOPIC: Big Steps 130581 Views

Re: Big Steps 17 Jan 2016 23:03 #274643

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Ouch! I can relate. One can never be too confident.
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Re: Big Steps 17 Jan 2016 23:09 #274645

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I feel pained for you - it happens when you're trying so hard to help, and then get stabbed in the back - I know all about it.

One thing can raise your spirit - remember your path and your avatar image, and that we are here for you - always!!!!
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Re: Big Steps 17 Jan 2016 23:27 #274648

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My heart goes out for you.
May you continue reaching out to God.
Please let guard or mods know.

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Re: Big Steps 17 Jan 2016 23:41 #274653

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Thanks for the kind words. I am not trying to portray myself as a victim, but this incident is hitting me hard. It's making me physically sick. I have been incredibly nauseous since the incident and I feel like throwing up. This disease is more than just in the mind, it's a physical disease and I believe I am either going through withdrawal symptoms or the toxicity of it is affecting me. Or both.
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Re: Big Steps 17 Jan 2016 23:50 #274655

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I feel for you and can't imagine how unsettling it must have been. Just remember that you have many people behind you here.

Re: Big Steps 17 Jan 2016 23:55 #274656

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Shlomo24 signature wrote:
Don't Worry! BE HAPPY! | "I can't do it, God can help."
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Re: Big Steps 18 Jan 2016 04:47 #274680

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You can get the courage to get back up and continue your journey to recovery. No matter what happens dust yourself off and continue. KEEP ON TRUCKING as we say.
Last Edit: 18 Jan 2016 04:47 by Caim.

Re: Big Steps 18 Jan 2016 15:03 #274704

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Hi Shlomo,
I didn't see your post until today. I hope the new day has brought relief from yesterday's upset.
I don't know if this will help you, but at times like this I am sometimes able to appreciate the perspective that in the past I might have had a very different reaction. It is a measure of tremendous progress accomplished that you are so distraught by it.
Wishing you continued hatzlacha.
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Re: Big Steps 18 Jan 2016 15:07 #274706

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eslaasos wrote:
Hi Shlomo,
I didn't see your post until today. I hope the new day has brought relief from yesterday's upset.
I don't know if this will help you, but at times like this I am sometimes able to appreciate the perspective that in the past I might have had a very different reaction. It is a measure of tremendous progress accomplished that you are so distraught by it.
Wishing you continued hatzlacha.
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Re: Big Steps 18 Jan 2016 15:08 #274707

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Yes Tou Can!!
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...


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Re: Big Steps 18 Jan 2016 16:05 #274716

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Stop thinking about it and keep going, just ignore it.
It's no secret that there are a lot of lost souls in the world, but we try not to be part of them.

Re: Big Steps 18 Jan 2016 16:34 #274722

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Thanks guys. Much appreciated. I'm still obsessing and fantasizing about it.
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Re: Big Steps 18 Jan 2016 16:42 #274728

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Just adding my suport and encouragement. IY"H this will pass. Hang in there.

Re: Big Steps 18 Jan 2016 17:01 #274733

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Ok I slipped a little, I tried contacting him. He deleted his email though. I feel very ashamed.
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Re: Big Steps 18 Jan 2016 17:06 #274735

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