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Make sure to tell newcomers please 24 Apr 2014 18:39 #230596

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When a newcomer posts on the forum for the first time, they often say that they've tried everything and ask, "so what do I do now?" Please tell them this:

Make sure to see the 12 suggestions on the First Time Here page.

Also, check out your Personal Home-page. It will guide you through each tool/task that we suggest, one by one, and help you track your progress in recovery.


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Re: Make sure to tell newcomers please 05 Jun 2015 21:14 #256207

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i Have tried everything so i ask please what do i do now

Re: Make sure to tell newcomers please 05 Jun 2015 22:44 #256212

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If you honestly gave yourself over and tried everything to your fullest potential, then you should accept your lot in life and God's Will for you to struggle and daven to him for Rachmanus every day.

Have a good Shabboss.

PS, Just wondering, how long have you been on GYE phone calls for, and which ones are you on?
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Re: Make sure to tell newcomers please 07 Jun 2015 05:32 #256237

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iwant2begood wrote:
i Have tried everything so i ask please what do i do now


what is everythin', and for how long?
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If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."


Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others.

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Re: Make sure to tell newcomers please 11 Jan 2016 17:03 #273978

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Hi

Re: Make sure to tell newcomers please 14 Jan 2016 23:50 #274363

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Hi this is my first time in the forum grateful for tips....

Re: Make sure to tell newcomers please 15 Jan 2016 00:58 #274373

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Welcome!!

First tip I recommend is start your own thread by clicking HERE where you can share your struggles and we can try to share what work for us

Crank up the truck and on you go!!!
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Re: Make sure to tell newcomers please 15 Jan 2016 18:54 #274466

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Welcome! read the handbook. keep posting.

Re: Make sure to tell newcomers please 20 Apr 2016 20:23 #285494

Hi, I'm new to this whole thing hope it works

Re: Make sure to tell newcomers please 20 Apr 2016 20:25 #285495

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HI nice to meet you!!!

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