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Re: Dms1234's story 17 May 2018 13:00 #331165

Wow. Mazal Tov. 
My gut feeling is that a nice period of time in SA makes for a pretty darn good chasson schmooze.
I am genuinely happy for you, and wish you guys the best.

Re: Dms1234's story 06 Sep 2018 02:02 #335338

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dms1234 wrote on 24 Jul 2014 20:42:
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i am also workin' on procrastinatin'
I am workin' on a plan
it is beginnin' to take shape
i will start writin' it down shortly (as soon as I get pen and paper)
When that is done, I will immediately/soon afterwards start the process of begiinin' to determine which is the best plan of action, and how best to implement it
right after that, the decision will be reached and it'll all be taken care of
I will keep ya' all posted on my progress

thanks

b'hatzlachah



I know you are joking, but I am in the middle of that exact process right now.
I maybe have a plan for a certain area that I have been neglecting, but I just need to write it down. I will do that eventually. Maybe. Soon. Possibly. Yeah.
This has been going on for a month or so now. I will do it as some point. I guess.

After all why do today what you can push off to tomorrow.

Its interesting that this is a common problem among us. Lusting probably does it. We want THIS now, and then we push things off. So we develop procrastination problems and then stress comes from that because we are really all perfectionists and we all love ourselves so much. AH! the life of an addict!

All accurate, except the last line: Addicts don't have a life - I know from personal experience. The moment I allow the addicted side of me to take the steerin' wheel - that is the moment I swerve into oncomin' traffic; and that ain't livin'!
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Re: Dms1234's story 22 Oct 2018 02:53 #336498

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Re: Dms1234's story 22 Oct 2018 03:19 #336499

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Bigmoish wrote on 22 Oct 2018 02:53:
Mazal Tov!
Invitation must have gotten lost in the mail. (The delivery is spotty in these less developed parts.)
Hope you're faring well in marriage.
B'hatzlocha!

Wow Mazel Tov!

Time to change the name to DMC1234!

Thanks Moish, nice to see you back ;-)
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Re: Dms1234's story 24 Mar 2019 20:27 #339927

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Bigmoish wrote on 22 Oct 2018 02:53:
Mazal Tov!
Invitation must have gotten lost in the mail. (The delivery is spotty in these less developed parts.)
Hope you're faring well in marriage.
B'hatzlocha!

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