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Re: hello my friends.... 29 Aug 2013 01:06 #217689

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Hello my friends...(all of you, whatever Shul you're in)
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...



My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends

Re: hello my friends.... 29 Aug 2013 01:10 #217690

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Hi Gevura
is it true you daven in a converted AC-130 Spectre?
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ

Re: hello my friends.... 29 Aug 2013 01:52 #217693

אל תסתכל בקנקן אלא במה שיש בו

It's not the חיצוניות of the shul that counts.
It's the לחיים they give after davening -- the 'spirit'...

MT

Re: hello my friends.... 29 Aug 2013 02:02 #217694

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In our Shul we don't pour spirits. Mir Gissen Blei!

HEH HEH
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...



My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends

Re: hello my friends.... 29 Aug 2013 02:06 #217696

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Hi, Gevura

Seeing this thread at the top made me go back to read your story on page 1, and some of the initial answers. (But no, I did not read all 37 pages...).

All I can say is kol hakavod. I may not have the same specific struggle that you have, with ssa, but lust is lust, and it's the same struggle. I applaud you for rejecting the label. The secular world is really horrible when it comes to this issue, and I applaud you for rejecting all the lies they try to feed you.
He that hath no rule over his own spirit is like a city that is broken down, and without walls. /Mishlei 25:28

Re: hello my friends.... 29 Aug 2013 02:10 #217697

Gevura Shebyesod wrote:
In our Shul we don't pour spirits. Mir Gissen Blei!

HEH HEH


I know that gissen blei helps against Ayin hora (evil eye). I wonder if it also helps against bad sights (histaklus asuros). Maybe if it is poured directly into the eyes (Chas vechalila!).

Hatzlacha

MT
Last Edit: 29 Aug 2013 02:11 by Machshovo Tova.

Re: hello my friends.... 29 Aug 2013 02:22 #217699

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thatguyoverthere wrote:
Hi, Gevura

Seeing this thread at the top made me go back to read your story on page 1, and some of the initial answers. (But no, I did not read all 37 pages...).

All I can say is kol hakavod. I may not have the same specific struggle that you have, with ssa, but lust is lust, and it's the same struggle. I applaud you for rejecting the label. The secular world is really horrible when it comes to this issue, and I applaud you for rejecting all the lies they try to feed you.


Thank you. And thanks for pointing out that we're on page 37. Kewl!
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...



My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends

Re: hello my friends.... 29 Aug 2013 14:08 #217723

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Now I understand why I got a thanks for the bump. And MT, I wasn't in your shul yesterday, but I WAS in your city, problem is it's a huge city and I was at the other side. I will iy"h be there again today, not sure when though.
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?

Re: hello my friends.... 02 Sep 2013 23:06 #218254

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ahem
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ

Re: hello my friends.... 03 Sep 2013 04:24 #218283

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ZemirosShabbos wrote:
ahem

Did you also get a thanks for the bump?
:pinch: Warning: Spoiler!
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?

Re: hello my friends.... 03 Sep 2013 05:04 #218291

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Hayom Yom Tish'im....

This time I didn't get to say Hallel. Instead I said Slichos. Hmmm...

The truth is, today is a day just like every other. The same struggle, the same triggers, the same frustrations and confusion, the same effort to remember that Hashem runs my life and my part is only to make the correct choices for the here and now. Fretting over the past or worrying about the future will not help me. The past is unchangeable, and the future is in His hands.

I would like to take this opportunity to wish all of you a Ksiva Vachasima Tova, and a happy and sweet upcoming year. You are the best group of friends I have ever had, you accepted me as I am and are making it possible for me to accept myself and learn to live a real life. May we all have a new year of continued growth and progress, and hatzlacha in all things.

Gevura!
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...



My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends

Re: hello my friends.... 03 Sep 2013 05:47 #218293

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Mazel Tov!

Keep on keeping on and KOMT!
Last Edit: 03 Sep 2013 05:48 by skeptical.

Re: hello my friends.... 03 Sep 2013 07:18 #218295

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Wow!
hatzlachah veiter!

You are a true living inspiration!
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Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others.

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Re: hello my friends.... 03 Sep 2013 14:56 #218307

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I upped G!'s Karma, but now he's got 45. I don't mind but I know G! goes more for 48 I vote the whole oilam should raise his karma...
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?

Re: hello my friends.... 03 Sep 2013 18:18 #218319

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Mazal Tov G-man!
May Hashem bentsch you and your wonderful family will all things good.
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