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Re: hello my friends.... 06 Nov 2012 21:02 #147352

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200 mazel tovs to you!
Gevura for Veep!
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
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The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ

Re: hello my friends.... 23 Nov 2012 07:29 #148408

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I feel so identified with your story... This SSA problem is driving me crazy.

Please Hashem take it, we don't want it!!!! It so difficult

Re: hello my friends.... 28 Nov 2012 17:58 #148622

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222! (0x000000DE, 0b11011110)
TOOOOOT!! TOOOOOT!! TOOOOOT!!

Actually my truck goes BEEEP!!! BEEEP!!! BEEEP!!!
See here:http://www.guardyoureyes.org/forum/index.php?topic=4125.msg138902#msg138902
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וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...

"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
- General Grant

My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends

Re: hello my friends.... 30 Nov 2012 18:48 #148759

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Mazel Tov BB!










(heh, heh....meant: GEVURAH!)
Admin put these lines here cuz he likes 'em:
"The heart needs to be broken when will-power is not enough"
"Get off the 18-Wheeler and onto a tricycle!"
"The heck with me, what can I do for you?"
"I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons!"

Re: hello my friends.... 30 Nov 2012 19:06 #148761

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!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...

"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
- General Grant

My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends

Re: hello my friends.... 30 Nov 2012 19:13 #148763

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wait...are you really upset with me and my goofiness?



....gotta have another bowl of cheerios.
Admin put these lines here cuz he likes 'em:
"The heart needs to be broken when will-power is not enough"
"Get off the 18-Wheeler and onto a tricycle!"
"The heck with me, what can I do for you?"
"I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons!"

Re: hello my friends.... 30 Nov 2012 19:39 #148765

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Not at all!!


And maybe I SHOULD call myself BB. Short for בִּי״פּ בִּי״פּ. ;D
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וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...

"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
- General Grant

My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends

Re: hello my friends.... 02 Dec 2012 20:28 #148807

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Then what would senile people like me call you?
Admin put these lines here cuz he likes 'em:
"The heart needs to be broken when will-power is not enough"
"Get off the 18-Wheeler and onto a tricycle!"
"The heck with me, what can I do for you?"
"I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons!"

Re: hello my friends.... 06 Dec 2012 00:47 #148988

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belated mazel tov

Re: hello my friends.... 26 Dec 2012 19:45 #200496

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250!
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...

"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
- General Grant

My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends

Re: hello my friends.... 26 Dec 2012 20:05 #200498

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ice cream party!
(250 = המר = good humor = ice cream (monstuh') truck [245 plus 5 sprinkles = 250])
Mazel tov!
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
Last Edit: 26 Dec 2012 20:09 by ZemirosShabbos.

Re: hello my friends.... 28 Dec 2012 22:39 #200565

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iz yadua az dehr rebbeh had a thing for ice cream with sprinkles.
voooooooooooooooffffrd
komt

Re: hello my friends.... 31 Dec 2012 03:43 #200584

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WOW gevura, i am so glad for you!

Re: hello my friends.... 31 Dec 2012 06:09 #200592

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Ner l'ragli d'vorecha! v'or linsivasi!
Admin put these lines here cuz he likes 'em:
"The heart needs to be broken when will-power is not enough"
"Get off the 18-Wheeler and onto a tricycle!"
"The heck with me, what can I do for you?"
"I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons!"

Re: hello my friends.... 31 Dec 2012 06:36 #200594

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A couple of quick Vertlach....

I heard this one the other day and I'm sure it's been posted here before (TZ where are you? )

"...וַיְבָרְכֵם בַּיּוֹם הַהוּא לֵאמוֹר" Says Reb Bunim of Pshischa, "Vayevoracheim", he blessed them, "Bayom Hahu", with that day. That they should always live in that day. No regrets over the past, no worries about the future. Just "Bayom Hahu", one day at a time!

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עֹשֶׂה מִשְׁפָּט לָעֲשׁוּקִים נֹתֵן לֶחֶם לָרְעֵבִים... ...שֹׁמֵר אֶת-גֵּרִים יָתוֹם וְאַלְמָנָה יְעוֹדֵד וְדֶרֶךְ רְשָׁעִים יְעַוֵּת

The Pesukim list many ways that Hashem helps and uplifts the downtrodden, then it ends with "and He confuses the wicked". How does that fit into the sequence here?

The answer is that the Pasuk is describing one of the biggest Chasodim that Hashem can do with a person. Sometimes one is on a wicked path, just cruising along oblivious to the damage he is doing. Then Hashem decides to give the person a second chance. So He muddies and confuses the way, and makes the person so miserable that he is forced to confront the truth about himself and make the choice which road he will continue to follow. And He guides the person onto a better path...
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...

"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
- General Grant

My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends
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