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Re: need idea 30 Jul 2015 19:35 #260583

  • peloni almoni
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cordnoy wrote:
No real problem then.
If life is good, and you enjoy porn, why bother stoppin'?
don't see a therapist for eatin' too much hot n' spicy garlic pickles with gelunkinde mayo unless it bothers you and it drips all over your clothin' and it's gettin' on your nerves and you really wanna stop.

Oh....the big bad aveirah and gehinnom and the guard by gan eden and the tumah, learn 15 minutes of mussar every day, speak to your Rav/Rebbe/Mashgiach.

b'hatzlachah


הזהרו ב"קורדנוי" ובתורתו שדבריו בכל מקום הם דברי טעם
Have a corny day ... and if you do have other plans, change 'em!!
peloni_almoni@hotmail.com

None of us has it all together, but together, we have it all.

we always put our sobriety before our ego -
מוטב שאקרא שוטה כל ימי ואל אהיה רשע שעה אחת לפני המקום

לפעולות אדם בדבר שפתיך אני שמרתי אורחות פריץ. תמוך אשורי במעגלותיך בל נמוטו פעמי. תהלים יז
__________________________________________________________
LINKS:
- SOLUTIONS: WHERE DO I FIT IN TO GYE
- DOWNLOAD GYE HANDBOOK & READ AT LEAST TWICE
- OVERDOSE OF DOV: READING MATERIAL TO KEEP ME SANE
- THE BEST THREAD ON THE FORUM; READ, POST, AND HAVE A GREAT TIME
 

Re: need idea 30 Jul 2015 20:08 #260588

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peloni almoni wrote:
cordnoy wrote:
No real problem then.
If life is good, and you enjoy porn, why bother stoppin'?
don't see a therapist for eatin' too much hot n' spicy garlic pickles with gelunkinde mayo unless it bothers you and it drips all over your clothin' and it's gettin' on your nerves and you really wanna stop.

Oh....the big bad aveirah and gehinnom and the guard by gan eden and the tumah, learn 15 minutes of mussar every day, speak to your Rav/Rebbe/Mashgiach.

b'hatzlachah


הזהרו ב"קורדנוי" ובתורתו שדבריו בכל מקום הם דברי טעם


Goodness, i'm gonna stop postin'.....and here I am workin' the steps, for my ego is to the gazoo.
Why don't you stick to postin about lamb chops and schwarma
My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads:
GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous)

If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."


Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others.

MY POSTS ARE NOT WRITTEN AS A MODERATOR UNLESS EXPLICITLY STATED.

Re: need idea 30 Jul 2015 20:31 #260593

  • peloni almoni
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cordnoy wrote:
peloni almoni wrote:
cordnoy wrote:
No real problem then.
If life is good, and you enjoy porn, why bother stoppin'?
don't see a therapist for eatin' too much hot n' spicy garlic pickles with gelunkinde mayo unless it bothers you and it drips all over your clothin' and it's gettin' on your nerves and you really wanna stop.

Oh....the big bad aveirah and gehinnom and the guard by gan eden and the tumah, learn 15 minutes of mussar every day, speak to your Rav/Rebbe/Mashgiach.

b'hatzlachah


הזהרו ב"קורדנוי" ובתורתו שדבריו בכל מקום הם דברי טעם


Goodness, i'm gonna stop postin'.....and here I am workin' the steps, for my ego is to the gazoo.
Why don't you stick to postin about lamb chops and schwarma


lol... i guess i did not take that down fast enough
Have a corny day ... and if you do have other plans, change 'em!!
peloni_almoni@hotmail.com

None of us has it all together, but together, we have it all.

we always put our sobriety before our ego -
מוטב שאקרא שוטה כל ימי ואל אהיה רשע שעה אחת לפני המקום

לפעולות אדם בדבר שפתיך אני שמרתי אורחות פריץ. תמוך אשורי במעגלותיך בל נמוטו פעמי. תהלים יז
__________________________________________________________
LINKS:
- SOLUTIONS: WHERE DO I FIT IN TO GYE
- DOWNLOAD GYE HANDBOOK & READ AT LEAST TWICE
- OVERDOSE OF DOV: READING MATERIAL TO KEEP ME SANE
- THE BEST THREAD ON THE FORUM; READ, POST, AND HAVE A GREAT TIME
 

Re: need idea 30 Jul 2015 21:36 #260595

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peloni almoni wrote:
cordnoy wrote:
peloni almoni wrote:
cordnoy wrote:
No real problem then.
If life is good, and you enjoy porn, why bother stoppin'?
don't see a therapist for eatin' too much hot n' spicy garlic pickles with gelunkinde mayo unless it bothers you and it drips all over your clothin' and it's gettin' on your nerves and you really wanna stop.

Oh....the big bad aveirah and gehinnom and the guard by gan eden and the tumah, learn 15 minutes of mussar every day, speak to your Rav/Rebbe/Mashgiach.

b'hatzlachah


הזהרו ב"קורדנוי" ובתורתו שדבריו בכל מקום הם דברי טעם


Goodness, i'm gonna stop postin'.....and here I am workin' the steps, for my ego is to the gazoo.
Why don't you stick to postin about lamb chops and schwarma


lol... i guess i did not take that down fast enough


Nope!
It was fast enough.
My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads:
GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous)

If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."


Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others.

MY POSTS ARE NOT WRITTEN AS A MODERATOR UNLESS EXPLICITLY STATED.

Re: need idea 30 Jul 2015 21:37 #260596

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cordnoy wrote:
peloni almoni wrote:
cordnoy wrote:
peloni almoni wrote:
cordnoy wrote:
No real problem then.
If life is good, and you enjoy porn, why bother stoppin'?
don't see a therapist for eatin' too much hot n' spicy garlic pickles with gelunkinde mayo unless it bothers you and it drips all over your clothin' and it's gettin' on your nerves and you really wanna stop.

Oh....the big bad aveirah and gehinnom and the guard by gan eden and the tumah, learn 15 minutes of mussar every day, speak to your Rav/Rebbe/Mashgiach.

b'hatzlachah


הזהרו ב"קורדנוי" ובתורתו שדבריו בכל מקום הם דברי טעם


Goodness, i'm gonna stop postin'.....and here I am workin' the steps, for my ego is to the gazoo.
Why don't you stick to postin about lamb chops and schwarma


lol... i guess i did not take that down fast enough


Nope!
It was fast enough.


For the explanation of this, email me please: thenewme613@hotmail.com

thanks
My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads:
GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous)

If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."


Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others.

MY POSTS ARE NOT WRITTEN AS A MODERATOR UNLESS EXPLICITLY STATED.
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