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TOPIC: GRODNIAN EXPERIMENT 1107 Views

Re: ELUL EXPERIMENT 31 Aug 2021 19:50 #372068

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I believe someone took Tuesday night. So I'll be on in for tomorrow night (Wednesday night) iyh.
thanks for this idea it's amazing!!

Re: ELUL EXPERIMENT 01 Sep 2021 10:31 #372091

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I'll take Wednesday.. Yashar Koach for doing this..

B'Ezras Hashem you should all be Matzliach.

Re: ELUL EXPERIMENT 01 Sep 2021 12:17 #372094

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Thanks, keep up your amazing work!

Chevra, we are now accepting commitments for Thursday, Friday and Shabbos : )

Wishing you a wonderful day from sunny Grodno ~ IMG

ה׳ עמך גבור החיל! [שופטים ו׳ יב׳]

 Perhaps you can find chizuk from my thread at guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/356161-Intro 

Feel free to reach out to me at
jackz90dys@gmail.com

Re: ELUL EXPERIMENT 05 Sep 2021 17:46 #372215

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Erev Rosh Hashana hero, anyone?

ה׳ עמך גבור החיל! [שופטים ו׳ יב׳]

 Perhaps you can find chizuk from my thread at guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/356161-Intro 

Feel free to reach out to me at
jackz90dys@gmail.com

Re: ELUL EXPERIMENT 05 Sep 2021 17:48 #372216

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For the background to my name- see Tanya פרק טו.
״שההפרש בין עובד אלוקים לצדיק הוא שעובד הוא לשון הווה, שהוא באמצע העבודה״
-Oived Elokim means a constant work in progress...
“Every saint has a past, and every sinner has a future”.

My old thread

My current thread 

Re: ELUL EXPERIMENT 05 Sep 2021 22:38 #372229

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I’ll bli neder take First day Rosh Hashana, to not look at noshim walking to and from the minyan. And tashlich.
Last Edit: 05 Sep 2021 22:38 by YeshivaGuy.

Re: ELUL EXPERIMENT 06 Sep 2021 18:53 #372255

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Bli neder I will try for second night of RH. May Hashem give everyone a good year of health, happiness and strength and klal yisroel's tefilos should be answered.

ksivah vchasima tovah.

Re: ELUL EXPERIMENT 10 Sep 2021 18:13 #372330

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I am so proud to be part of this chevra of people who are so committed to improving in self-discipline!

There is an area that may challenge me this Shabbos, so I would like to take Tishrei 5...Would anyone join and take any date from now until Y"K....to stretch beyond their perceived limits Likras Yom Hadin?

Thank you from Grodno! ~ IMG

ה׳ עמך גבור החיל! [שופטים ו׳ יב׳]

 Perhaps you can find chizuk from my thread at guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/356161-Intro 

Feel free to reach out to me at
jackz90dys@gmail.com

Last Edit: 10 Sep 2021 20:04 by Ish MiGrodno.

Re: ELUL EXPERIMENT 10 Sep 2021 19:27 #372336

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I've been struggling keeping away from lust the past day, I commit to keep away till shabbos (shabbos is usually not a problem).
Aka -  Mischadeish075

Re: ELUL EXPERIMENT 10 Sep 2021 19:30 #372337

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You mean Tishrei 5, right?
Aka -  Mischadeish075

Re: ELUL EXPERIMENT 10 Sep 2021 20:07 #372342

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Correct....but gantz yahr Elul!

...At least that's what they say in Grodno : )

ה׳ עמך גבור החיל! [שופטים ו׳ יב׳]

 Perhaps you can find chizuk from my thread at guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/356161-Intro 

Feel free to reach out to me at
jackz90dys@gmail.com

Re: ELUL EXPERIMENT 13 Sep 2021 03:10 #372392

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I’ll bH take the 8th of Tishrei. Thank you for the inspiration

Re: ELUL & SUKKOS EXPERIMENT 17 Sep 2021 16:01 #372526

  • Ish MiGrodno
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Please note the title change - as per a request.

Bain Hazmanim can be brutal - so a well planned and manageable kabala can be incredibly valuable.

IMG

ה׳ עמך גבור החיל! [שופטים ו׳ יב׳]

 Perhaps you can find chizuk from my thread at guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/356161-Intro 

Feel free to reach out to me at
jackz90dys@gmail.com

Re: ELUL & SUKKOS EXPERIMENT 19 Sep 2021 03:24 #372541

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I'm going to take tommorow. 
Thanx for extending this amazing thread!
I for one have a hard time before succos.
Also my in laws have unfiltered internet in their house so...
(bh my wife is in the loop now so hopefully we will manage)
Hope for the best Prepare for the worst
Last Edit: 19 Sep 2021 03:27 by gettingthere9.

Re: ELUL & SUKKOS EXPERIMENT 19 Sep 2021 05:46 #372549

  • Ish MiGrodno
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Thank you!

Is having your wife involved ONLY a benefit - or does it also pose some new challenges? (I know that the answer is different for everyone but I am interested to hear about the varying experiences that people have..)

IMG

ה׳ עמך גבור החיל! [שופטים ו׳ יב׳]

 Perhaps you can find chizuk from my thread at guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/356161-Intro 

Feel free to reach out to me at
jackz90dys@gmail.com

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