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TOPIC: Tryin' 232511 Views
Re: Tryin' 26 May 2021 19:36 #369058
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My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads: GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous) If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful." "Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'. "The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same." Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others. MY POSTS ARE NOT WRITTEN AS A MODERATOR UNLESS EXPLICITLY STATED. |
Re: Tryin' 26 May 2021 19:38 #369059
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My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads: GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous) If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful." "Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'. "The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same." Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others. MY POSTS ARE NOT WRITTEN AS A MODERATOR UNLESS EXPLICITLY STATED. |
Re: Tryin' 27 May 2021 19:49 #369106
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My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads: GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous) If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful." "Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'. "The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same." Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others. MY POSTS ARE NOT WRITTEN AS A MODERATOR UNLESS EXPLICITLY STATED. |
Re: Tryin' 28 May 2021 15:18 #369141
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My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads: GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous) If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful." "Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'. "The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same." Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others. MY POSTS ARE NOT WRITTEN AS A MODERATOR UNLESS EXPLICITLY STATED. |
Re: Tryin' 30 May 2021 11:32 #369189
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Check out My Thread and The Truth
(עשה רצונו כרצונך (אבות,ב:ד Feel free to email me wilnevergiveupgye@gmail.com |
Re: Tryin' 01 Jun 2021 15:08 #369310
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My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads: GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous) If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful." "Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'. "The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same." Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others. MY POSTS ARE NOT WRITTEN AS A MODERATOR UNLESS EXPLICITLY STATED. |
Re: Tryin' 03 Jun 2021 13:08 #369404
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My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads: GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous) If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful." "Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'. "The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same." Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others. MY POSTS ARE NOT WRITTEN AS A MODERATOR UNLESS EXPLICITLY STATED. |
Re: Tryin' 04 Jun 2021 14:10 #369453
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My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads: GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous) If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful." "Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'. "The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same." Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others. MY POSTS ARE NOT WRITTEN AS A MODERATOR UNLESS EXPLICITLY STATED. |
Re: Tryin' 04 Jun 2021 18:11 #369468
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My email address is: growinghigher613@gmail.com
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Re: Tryin' 04 Jun 2021 18:44 #369470
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Think about how good you'll feel if you say no to desire and compare that to how bad you'll feel if you say yes.
Desire is unique in the way that it is never fulfilled - if you give in the desire comes back even more powerful in just a few days. Telling yourself that its ok because this is really the last time doesn't work because you are just adding new images to your head that will cause future falls. The Joy of triumph over the yetzer hara is worth the effort it takes to win. It IS worth it! Keep fighting! My thread: Aiming to be better Im a 19 year old yeshiva bachur who has "overcome" the challenge - would love to do my best to help people out especially fellow yeshiva bochurim. Feel free to contact me at evedhashem1836@gmail.com |
Re: Tryin' 05 Jun 2021 19:20 #369480
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cordnoy wrote on 04 Jun 2021 14:10:
A gutten Erev Shabbos, My apologies; I really wanted this to work. There are several reasons why I'm thinkin' that it isn't, and I'm not sure which is primary:
Bottom line, as of now, I can't. My hesitation, however, is that there are some fellows that are really takin' this seriously, and I respect that, I crave that personally, and I don't wanna mess up that progress. Therefore, I'm completely switchin' the model, and this may not work for some. It's on you. Either, email or call me when you're available, and we can do step work or shmuez or read from any book - providin' that I'm available. Or, with some advance notice, send me an email or text what time you may be available that day, and I will respond accordingly. Godspeed to all - I do wanna do my part, so please take advantage - this is not a burden; it's what I wanna do. Thanks A Guess I haven't been prayin' enough.  Unless I was and this is His part of His master plan. |
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Check out My Thread and The Truth
(עשה רצונו כרצונך (אבות,ב:ד Feel free to email me wilnevergiveupgye@gmail.com |