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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 09 Dec 2020 17:05 #358472

NachalNovea wrote on 09 Dec 2020 16:54:
Fought it so much. 

17 day streak!!!



is it normal - I was fighting it -  told her to come over so we can talk/ hang out. 




I think I do it bc she inspires me to me the best I can be. Thoughts?

I would venture to say that most of us in the GYE community struggle when we are in seclusion and alone. So, I think what you did was great! I wish you that your kallah should always inspire you to be the best you can be.

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 14 Dec 2020 06:01 #358646

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How u been buddy?

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 20 Dec 2020 01:14 #359107

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Soo? How u been man?
Come back! We need you!

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 21 Feb 2021 17:49 #363878

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I need help... i was working, and unintentionaly i saw an inappropiate photos and now i want to do it again! 

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 21 Feb 2021 18:02 #363879

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no dont PM me now

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 21 Feb 2021 18:19 #363881

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Shaul5781 wrote on 21 Feb 2021 17:49:
I need help... i was working, and unintentionaly i saw an inappropiate photos and now i want to do it again! 

Can you step away from the computer? Maybe take a walk,learn something,call a friend?? Anything to distract you and then when you have a more reasonable frame of mind you can analyze what went wrong and how to fix it.
Hatzlocha!

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 21 Feb 2021 18:38 #363882

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Shaul5781 wrote on 21 Feb 2021 17:49:
I need help... i was working, and unintentionaly i saw an inappropiate photos and now i want to do it again! 

Think about all the people on GYE that are reading this. When one person shows strength, he inspires so many others, the zechus is HUGE!

Do what yosef did.. RUN!

Looking forward to hear how you help up.
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 21 Feb 2021 18:45 #363883

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Thank you a lot! Every Message is inspirational!!

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 26 Feb 2021 12:02 #364280

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it might be the wine, but I love you all and we can do it1111

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 11 Mar 2021 15:53 #365240

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This thread is a really great resource.

Had a bit of slip up yesterday looking at things I know I shouldn't have. BH I was able to stop myself before it got out of hand. I'm currently 70 days in to the 90 day challenge and I'm nervous that this last stretch will be the toughest.

I removed the apps from my phone which would allow me to see things I shouldn't (my phone is also restricted so once an app is deleted I can't just re-download it). I also got into an argument with my wife and I was a bit under the weather. I think that combination of me being upset and in bed was the "perfect" recipe to get stirred up and lose care or interest. I find that those moments are always the hardest for me because I just feel like giving up.

Anyways, bH I didn't fall (got pretty close) and I just have to stay positive and keep focusing on each day as it comes. Always open to hear any advice from the incredible community on here.

I appreciate you all.

-eom

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 11 Mar 2021 17:39 #365246

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You are a hero!! We have to learn from you. Continue with this attitudde. You can do it!!

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 11 Mar 2021 17:53 #365248

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eom308 wrote on 11 Mar 2021 15:53:
I'm currently 70 days in to the 90 day challenge and I'm nervous that this last stretch will be the toughest.

-eom

One thing that we keep on repeating here is "ONE DAY AT A TIME" Please don't think about the "last stretch" it's not a stretch... it's only one day, TODAY! 
Keep strong!
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Last Edit: 12 Mar 2021 16:56 by DavidT.

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 16 Mar 2021 17:29 #365522

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Hi I almost fell,
I decided To check out my filter to see if it works.
It totally took me over.
Thank G-D I didnt fall, but i am a bit upset

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 16 Mar 2021 17:37 #365524

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eyes wrote on 16 Mar 2021 17:29:
Hi I almost fell,
I decided To check out my filter to see if it works.
It totally took me over.
Thank G-D I didnt fall, but i am a bit upset

UPSET?
You past such an amazing test! You need to celebrate... 
"If I am not for myself, who will be for me? But if I am only for myself, who am I? If not now, when?"
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 16 Mar 2021 17:45 #365525

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no i acted like an animal.
almost lost 600+ days
just to show, we always have to be on the radar
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