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Re: Im about to FALL!! 30 Dec 2016 18:46 #301653

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Thanks for your support!   So far so good.  BH pulled thru.  Good Shabbos
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Re: Im about to FALL!! 01 Jan 2017 06:58 #301687

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Hashem Help Me wrote on 30 Dec 2016 06:02:
I have been doing bh pretty good but now my wife got her period and the urge to masturbate is overwhelming. HELP

Was this her first period?
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Re: Im about to FALL!! 02 Jan 2017 12:19 #301795

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No   I suffer like this each time  BH made it thru this time
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Re: Im about to FALL!! 02 Jan 2017 12:28 #301797

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Hashem Help Me wrote on 02 Jan 2017 12:19:
No   I suffer like this each time  BH made it thru this time

Her period time lasted two days?

SeemsI like you need some constructive, productive tools.
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If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."


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Re: Im about to FALL!! 02 Jan 2017 13:54 #301805

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its just the first day that i went nuts  now i am bh ok   in the past i didnt get past day one
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Re: Im about to FALL!! 02 Jan 2017 14:15 #301807

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So what can be done for the next time?
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If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."


Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others.

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Re: Im about to FALL!! 02 Jan 2017 17:44 #301821

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I really appreciate your interest in my success    I think its an ingrained obsession that i have to keep telling myself is a lie   I dont HAVE TO have sex or masturbate     Do you have any eitzos if this impulsive panic hits aagain?
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Re: Im about to FALL!! 02 Jan 2017 17:47 #301822

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Re: Im about to FALL!! 03 Jan 2017 03:43 #301920

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Hashem Help Me wrote on 02 Jan 2017 17:44:
I really appreciate your interest in my success    I think its an ingrained obsession that i have to keep telling myself is a lie   I dont HAVE TO have sex or masturbate     Do you have any eitzos if this impulsive panic hits aagain?

My pleasure.

II don't really know what panic attacks are.

I needed someone else to help meI figure out what it might be that I was searchin' for (yes, it was porn smart alek! But why?). And then, how to prevent that.
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If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."


Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others.

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Re: Im about to FALL!! 03 Jan 2017 09:14 #301971

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Hashem Help Me wrote on 02 Jan 2017 13:54:
its just the first day that i went nuts  now i am bh ok   in the past i didnt get past day one

I once fell erev Mikveh night... later I broke down in tears in front of my one-year-old while waiting for my wife's return.
It was nasty.
Work it one day at a time. May you be successful.
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Re: Im about to FALL!! 03 Jan 2017 12:13 #301989

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So who could help?
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Re: Im about to FALL!! 03 Jan 2017 12:14 #301990

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What kind of therapist?
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Re: Im about to FALL!! 03 Jan 2017 13:47 #301995

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Hashem Help Me wrote on 03 Jan 2017 12:13:
So who could help?

Have you read the gye handbook?

DoI you have anyone you can speak to?

You sound a bit lost.
My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
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If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."


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Re: Im about to FALL!! 03 Jan 2017 13:58 #302001

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I have read all the literature  I have a sponsor but my being an addict has been ruled out by the big guys  I set up a Taphsic fence   Looking for more advice   If you have the name of a new york area therapist please forward it to me   Thanks for your time and interest
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Re: Im about to FALL!! 03 Jan 2017 14:02 #302004

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Hashem Help Me wrote on 03 Jan 2017 13:58:
I have read all the literature  I have a sponsor but my being an addict has been ruled out by the big guys  I set up a Taphsic fence   Looking for more advice   If you have the name of a new york area therapist please forward it to me   Thanks for your time and interest

Can't help you with tapshicks.

Call relief regardin' therapists.
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If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."


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