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TOPIC: I'm about to FALL!! 181861 Views

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 06 Mar 2016 23:41 #280507

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What's doin'?
We are here.
My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads:
GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous)

If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."


Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others.

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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 06 Mar 2016 23:46 #280509

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Feeling the urges again I really don't want to fall
Soberity is a journey NOT a destination 
 

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 07 Mar 2016 00:03 #280513

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What have you done in the past?
What can you do now?
My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads:
GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous)

If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."


Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others.

MY POSTS ARE NOT WRITTEN AS A MODERATOR UNLESS EXPLICITLY STATED.

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 07 Mar 2016 00:07 #280515

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I haven't really done anything in the past 
the main problem right now is that I need to take a shower and I know if I go into that washroom I'm done 
any suggestions?
Soberity is a journey NOT a destination 
 

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 07 Mar 2016 00:12 #280517

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Stay smelly.
Pray.
Do what you always do.
Commit to a one minute shower.
Read the handbook.
My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads:
GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous)

If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."


Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others.

MY POSTS ARE NOT WRITTEN AS A MODERATOR UNLESS EXPLICITLY STATED.

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 07 Mar 2016 00:38 #280522

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B"H i made it out safe ,sound and unsmelly
Soberity is a journey NOT a destination 
 
Last Edit: 07 Mar 2016 00:51 by Aryeh821.

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 07 Mar 2016 02:50 #280530

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Aryeh I was gonna recommend you read the JHF section, but now I see this is also
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 07 Mar 2016 03:45 #280542

Aryeh821 wrote on 07 Mar 2016 00:38:
B"H i made it out safe ,sound and unsmelly

 

Glad to hear!
I was going to recommend you take a cold (I don't mean luke warm, I mean COLD) shower. It's not pleasant but almost ensures nothing will happen! 
Feel free to email me at BenTorah.BaalHabayis@gmail.com

1 day may be too long for me, but I take it OWAAT = One wave at a time, cause the lust comes and goes like a wave which rises and crashes.

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 07 Mar 2016 04:15 #280548

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markz wrote:
Aryeh I was gonna recommend you read the JHF section, but now I see this is also

What's JHF
Soberity is a journey NOT a destination 
 

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 07 Mar 2016 04:19 #280549

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JHF where most of my post count comes from thank Gd
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 09 Mar 2016 20:49 #280852

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Glad to hear it.
If I would have seen this in real time I would have told you to commit to posting here immediately after your shower. Bracketing showers or other risky activities by posting or calling a friend before and committing to contact him afterwards is a good way to stay clean.
The Blind Beggar is a character in Rebbe Nachman's story of the Seven Beggars.
If I view a woman as an object, I am powerless over lust, but I don't have to look.
I can guard my eyes.
I want to guard my eyes.
I do guard my eyes.
Why do I say these four lines?

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 09 Mar 2016 21:04 #280856

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Time to start a gye shower call number - replaces singing in dem shower, and hey BB great to see you back!!
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 24 Mar 2016 23:36 #282458

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BB, yoel here (1daat).  It's so good to "see" you.  I've got a bit of a streak going, and then I started to work on some writing I have to do, and then it comes in full force with the anxiety and the voices telling me it will take away all that stress.  Instead I come here, and there you are. 
Whew, Megilla in half an hour, and I haven't yet davened Mincha.  So I'm going to daven Mincha and then go to Purim party, and maybe that will shake this out of me.  Just talking to you helps so much.  Thank you for still being here.  Much love.  Chag sameach.

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 25 Mar 2016 02:01 #282462

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1daat where's our been??

I love how you old timers happen to chance upon guard your eyes when you're drunk

Question is what happens when you're are sober? Wait are you sober or do you need a handbook or somethin' else? A listening ear?
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 25 Mar 2016 20:46 #282529

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Anyone here?
 I need some help. My mom was diagnosed with cancer, and she doesn't have much time left.
she went in for a mammogram and was diagnosed with stage 3.
I really want to act out. please help.
I am not a therapist offering advice. I am merely a concerned poster and Friend.. You can do it. KOT. 

Please chat me anytime. I'm all ears. Thank You
Thank you... Shmuly
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