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Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 05 Dec 2011 20:53 #127757

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#43 It makes you want to act out again, which you know you don't want to do.
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Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 06 Dec 2011 14:12 #127813

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# 46 - Hashem has given us GYE which has given us many tools to help us out of this mess if you have the will to do it.  WE have no more excuses !!!! 
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Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 06 Dec 2011 21:00 #127861

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#47 It can be a disgusting mess to clean up, feeling horrible in the process.
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Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 06 Dec 2011 21:01 #127862

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#48 Sometimes it can get on your pants, and then you have live with that visable guilt and disgrace.
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Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 07 Dec 2011 10:39 #127916

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You might catch an STD and infect your wife :'( . That will need some explaining :-[ :-[ :-[ .
The Blind Beggar is a character in Rebbe Nachman's story of the Seven Beggars.
If I view a woman as an object, I am powerless over lust, but I don't have to look.
I can guard my eyes.
I want to guard my eyes.
I do guard my eyes.
Why do I say these four lines?
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Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 07 Dec 2011 16:28 #127955

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#50 - Ten days from now, you will look back and realize that you just lost 10 days of your life you could have lived free from slavery. ...same thing Ten years from now....
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Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 07 Dec 2011 19:47 #128007

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#51

When you look at "promo" you are promoting someone else's agenda.
Don't promote someone else's agenda promote your own ! 
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Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 13 Dec 2011 19:55 #128460

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#52

      What I do in עולם הזה, is what I will be לנצח נצחים.        Sexaholic, and pervert are not titles I enjoy.
                                                                                    I do not want them forever....

                    If I won't be sober soon, I may never have the chance. 
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Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 15 Dec 2011 06:50 #128562

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#53
Think about how you'll feel like tomorow
IF you act out- you'll feel like crap
If you dont act out - you'll feel like a million bucks
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Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 15 Dec 2011 20:09 #128599

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#54

Take look at the GYE blogs of the sad ones who fall repeatedly and say to yourself, B"H I'm glad I'm not one of them...
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Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 15 Dec 2011 23:00 #128609

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#55 BSD

I can read 90,000 (54) reasons not to, and I will still have the urge. Does that make any sense?
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Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 15 Dec 2011 23:37 #128611

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Makes sense.  But is that a reason not to act out?
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Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 16 Dec 2011 11:06 #128625

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YairA wrote on 15 Dec 2011 23:00:

#55 BSD

I can read 90,000 (54) reasons not to, and I will still have the urge. Does that make any sense?
Shteeble wrote on 15 Dec 2011 23:37:

Makes sense.  But is that a reason not to act out?


#55a:  Acting out has brought me down so far, that even after reading 54 reasons not to, I have no controll. 

#55b:  There are 53 reasons why I shouldn't be doing this, and it is so self destructive, that I still have an urge to act out.

#55c: This diseas will make me suffer 54 things, and I still have the urge to feed it! For that alone I need to get healthy, and live sober.

#55d: I will swiftly bring upon myself 90,000 consiquences by acting out, דרך אגב I still wana act-out. Stupid no?
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Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 16 Dec 2011 13:43 #128631

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YairA wrote on 15 Dec 2011 23:00:

#55 BSD

I can read 90,000 (54) reasons not to, and I will still have the urge. Does that make any sense?

You can't "reason" with the Y"H.  If reasons worked, we wouldn't all be here.
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Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 18 Dec 2011 06:23 #128680

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Im so happy #55 got so much attention BH. 55b was my intention but they're all good explanations. Thank you
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