Save the Date!

This Coming Thursday

July 19th at Noon EST

Special Guest Speaker - Dr. David Lieberman

New York Times Best Selling Author, International Speaker, Visionary and Influencer on Personal Relationships, Conflict Resolution and Motivation

On the Guard Your Eyes Conference Call

Rise Above your Nature:

Never Feel Angry, Anxious or Insecure Again!

Experience a New Kind of Freedom and Power.

Learn how to Permanently Rise above your Nature.

Move confidently thru life without ANGER, FEAR of FRUSTRATION!

Join us to learn the insights to these Goals and more...

Online, on air, or in print, Dr. Lieberman is recognized worldwide as the expert’s expert.

Dr. David Lieberman is the legendary leader in the fields of human behavior and interpersonal relationships. His groundbreaking research and writings have established him as a remarkable force of influence across a spectrum of fields and industries.

His eleven published books, which include two New York Times bestsellers, have been translated into 27 languages, selling more than three million copies worldwide.

Dr. Lieberman has appeared on more than 300 programs. He is a frequent guest expert on national television and radio shows, and he has been interviewed for, and featured in, leading newspapers and magazines around the globe. To learn more about Dr. Lieberman, visit www.drdavidlieberman.com

THE CALL IN NUMBER IS:
US - (641) 715-3836
IS - (076) 599-0060
The Participants use access
number 637207#

Everyone is invited: men and women, and bring your friends and family! There will also be a Q&A period for you to ask your questions.

And please send us your questions in advance.

Looking forward

Duvid Chaim & Miriam

A man and woman were recently celebrating their 50th wedding anniversary.

While cutting the cake, the wife was moved after seeing her husband’s eyes fill with tears.

The wife took his arm, and looked at him affectionately.

“I never knew you were so sentimental.” she whispered.

“No . . . No . . .” he said, choking back his tears, “That’s not it at all. Remember when your father found us in the barn and told me to either marry you or spend the next 50 years in jail?”

“Yes,” the wife replied. “I remember it like yesterday.”

“Well,” said the husband, “Today I would have been a free man.”

I want to share with you something I experienced today. I have been trying to quit porn and masturbation for a while, having ups and downs with it. One of the reasons it’s been so hard for me is because, thank G-d, my wife and people around me do not know. I have been doing it for so many years that I felt I would never be caught. This morning, however, I received an email that changed my perception. The email claimed to have exposed my signing-up to and viewing of pornographic websites, and that they made a recording of what I had viewed and had my webcam turned on to record me, and threatened to send this to all of my email and social media contacts unless I sent them $1,900. Although I don't actually have a webcam on my computer, my heart froze.

There were other reasons to not believe this was fake, but the possibility of it being real was frightening. By G-d's grace, I happened to have opened this email a few minutes before a scheduled call with Duvid Chaim, so I took the opportunity to forward him the email and discuss it during our call. We concluded that this was a message sent from G-d out of love for me, letting me know that what I'm doing is not only dangerous from a spiritual standpoint but physically harmful as well. After talking this through with Duvid Chaim, the tears began to flow and the message began to sink in.

Thankfully, after some research, the email turned out to be spam and not a threat, but the message I got from G-d was crystal clear. I pray that I can internalize this message daily that G-d loves me and is looking out for me, and it’s time to stop looking at porn for good and being more active in recovery. I hope this message can inspire others to remember that our behavior leaves footprints in all sorts of ways, and if we live our lives staying true to who we really are, we will never have to worry about a catastrophic embarrassment or shame.

Do you have a problem with obsessive and compulsive porn use? Have you seriously tried the tools on GYE and feel that you are not getting better? Maybe it’s time to consider joining a 12-Step program.

Porn Anonymous (PA)
If you’re compulsively acting-out with pornography and masturbation we suggest you explore joining Porn Anonymous (PA). If you need help deciding whether to join PA, call Michael at 347-699-2368, or email help@pornanonymous.org to schedule a time to talk. For more information visit pornanonymous.org (Hebrew: p-a.org.il / Yiddish: pa-yid.org).

Sexaholics Anonymous (SA)
If your compulsive acting-out has progressed beyond the screen (with other people, paid sexual services, etc.) we suggest you explore joining Sexaholics Anonymous (SA). To figure out if SA is for you, call Dov at 917-414-8205, or email Dov at dov@guardyoureyes.org to schedule a time to talk. For more information visit www.sa.org.