It is very important to point out that G-d, Almighty will constantly defeat the enemies of Israel. Parshat Mishpatim could not be clearer on the subject. "I shall send MY FEAR before you and I shall confound the entire people among you shall come; and I shall make all of your enemies turn the back of the neck to you.

"I shall send the hornet-swarm before you and it shall drive away the Hivvite, the Canaanite, and the Hittite before you."(23:27-28) What is the "Tzirah" ("hornet- swarm")? Why is the "Tzirah" important? Why does G-d use the "Tzirah" to fight our enemies? Is the "Tzirah" of today possibly Iron Dome, the Arrow Missile or the F16 Fighter Jet? Could G-d be alluding to these weapons when mentioning the "Tzirah"? To answer the last question first, it is quite possible that G-d indeed was alluding to these weapons to defeat our enemies.

But, it is much deeper than simply having these advanced weapons. They are vital and important and just as G-d took us out of Egypt "on the wings of eagles" (19:4) which is a metaphor, so too he will defeat our enemies with the "hornet swarm" which is a metaphor. The Maor VaShemesh explains that the Children of Israel defeat their enemies by first defeating their own "Yetzer HaRa" (evil impulse). The word "Tzirah" has the word "Yetzer" within it. The Maor VaShemesh says G-d's description of the "Tzirah" is a way of developing one's Spiritual self. G-d is saying that developing one's Spiritual self is a gradual process, step by step, and not a one shot deal. It is not shooting one arrow and you are now a Spiritual Being. Some people feel if they do just one thing for G-d in their lifetimes then they don't have to do anymore. In America, many American Jews say "I had a Bar Mitzvah or a Bat Mitzvah" and that is the extent of their Judaism. Judaism does not work this way. It is a process. Judaism is not buying a lottery ticket and 24 hours later you are a billionaire on a super high spiritual level.

One has to fight the "Yetzer HaRa" every day of his or her life. When you conquer one part of the "Yetzer HaRa" you begin to conquer the next part. Your enemies will be defeated when the "Yetzer HaRa" is defeated. The "Maase Merkava" (G-d's Chariot) (Ezekiel 1) raises the notion of four "Klipot" (evil forces) that man must overcome - 1)Kina - jealousy, 2) Taava - lust and desire, 3) Kavod - seeking honor, 4) Noga - gluttony. The Maor VaShemesh concentrates on the first three which he sends corresponds to the Hivvite, the Canaanite and the Hittite in the Posuk in Mishpatim (23:28).

G-d will often put physical enemies in our way so man can overcome his internal enemies. Human Beings are called "Holchim" because we can progress spiritually upwards, whereas Angels are called "Melachim" because they can only remain at one level. The Human Being can rise above the Angels if we work each and every day to overcome these Klipot(evil forces). Defeating the Hivvite, the Canaanite and the Hittite really refers to our defeating our "Yetzer Hara" which is represented by these Klipot (evil forces) of Jealousy, Lust, and Honor. (The 4th Klipa of Noga can be used for both evil and good- man can be a glutton and become rebellious or he can use food for a Seudat Mitzvah so is not discussed by the Maor VaShemesh per se). Overcoming the three Klipot of Kina, Taava and Kavod will enable the Jewish People to defeat their enemies.

As Israel's enemies gain momentum in the world today it is more important than ever that every Jew looks closely at himself and herself to overcome the "Yetzer HaRa". It is only then that G-d will send the "Tzirah" before us to destroy our enemies. Each Jew must eradicate the "Yetzer HaRa" that lurks in him or her. We must all shoot all the arrows we have into the face of the "Yetzer HaRa". Then "I shall confound the entire people among whom you shall come". we all pray that that day is not too far off and indeed is close at hand.

I have not knowingly lusted today and b"H have not acted out in a while, but when I share in meetings I still say things like "when I act out, I... blah, blah, blah... but b"H I don't need to do that today", because I believe that the day I start saying stuff like, "way back when I used to act out, I would...blah, blah, blah", I'll start to think I am now cured and can now control lust and "use it like a gentleman", as AA puts it quite humorously (regarding drinking).

No thanks! As Rav Noach Weinberg, zt"l liked to say, "Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me!" I've had enough for a lifetime.

Do you have a problem with obsessive and compulsive porn use? Have you seriously tried the tools on GYE and feel that you are not getting better? Maybe it’s time to consider joining a 12-Step program.

Porn Anonymous (PA)
If you’re compulsively acting-out with pornography and masturbation we suggest you explore joining Porn Anonymous (PA). If you need help deciding whether to join PA, call Michael at 347-699-2368, or email help@pornanonymous.org to schedule a time to talk. For more information visit pornanonymous.org (Hebrew: p-a.org.il / Yiddish: pa-yid.org).

Sexaholics Anonymous (SA)
If your compulsive acting-out has progressed beyond the screen (with other people, paid sexual services, etc.) we suggest you explore joining Sexaholics Anonymous (SA). To figure out if SA is for you, call Dov at 917-414-8205, or email Dov at dov@guardyoureyes.org to schedule a time to talk. For more information visit www.sa.org.